The fashion designer Rachel Roy may have outed herself as Beyoncé’s two-timing nemesis ‘Becky,’ but the history of Jay and Damon Dash exes dates all the way back to Aaliyah. “>
Rachel Roy kicked the Beyhive. What transpired was worse than the end of My Girl.
Lets back up a few steps. On Saturday night, Beyonc premiered her surreal, stunning visual poem Lemonade, a Malick-esque cinematic companion piece to her album of the same name. Equal parts vein-opening confession, Black Lives Matter manifesto, and celebration of black womanhood, the film piqued tabloid theorists interest with its myriad references to Queen Beys marital strife.
On the track Anger, she stalks about a parking lot screaming, If you try this shit again, youre gon lose your wife, before spiking her wedding ring at the camera. In Apathy, she starts things off with a mock eulogy for her marriage (Ashes to ashes, dust to side chicks), before dropping a cryptic clue about the identity of the other woman: He better call Becky with the good hair.
So, hours after Lemonade dropped, the fashion designer Rachel Roy posted the following photo to Instagram along with the caption: Good hair dont care, but we will take good lighting, for selfies, or self truths, always. live in the light #nodramaqueens.
While Roy did bring some of this backlash on herself by posting the image/caption in question, the punishment did not fit the alleged crime.
All this rabid speculation, of course, began in earnest when security footage emerged in May 2014 of Beyoncs sister, Solange, going Street Fighter on Jay in an elevator as a nonplussed Bey looked on. The incident occurred following a Met Gala after-party wherein the Sisters Knowles reportedly confronted Roy over her chummy relationship with Jay Z.
Solange was defending Beyonc in the elevator because Solange finds Jays friendship with Rachel to be WAY too close for comfort and it makes Solange very uncomfortable, a sourcetold Hollywood Life. Beyonc also confronted Rachel and said, Dont talk to my sister like that, after [Rachel] confronted Solange.
Roy has since been painted as the thirsty side chick scamming on Beyoncs manshe was Ali Larter in Obsessedwhile Jay Z was the tempted, happily married husband, reduced to a meme-ified punchline. You heard that right: A semi-successful, stunning fashionista was the predator, not the powerful music mogul who not only has a history of questionable behavior, but is also benefitting financially from this entire soap opera, with Lemonade available exclusively via his streaming service, Tidal.
And the disproportionate Roy-bashing seems even more absurd when you consider she is the ex-wife of Damon Dash, Jay Zs former best friend/business partner turned enemy, and that this is not the first time the two have been involved in a bizarre love triangle.
Harlem native Damon Dame Dash and Brooklyns Shawn Jay Z Carter met in 1994, when they were introduced by DJ Clark Kent. Dash was the entrepreneur, while Jay, a former drug dealer turned rapper, was the talent. In 1996, after the major labels passed on Jay Zs debut album, Reasonable Doubt, the two friendsalong with Kareem Biggs Burkestarted the label Roc-A-Fella Records in order to release it. Soon after, they started the successful clothing line Rocawear.
Things were relatively peachy on the Roc-A-Fella front until 1999, when both Jay Z and Dash began pursuing the 20-year-old R&B artist Aaliyah.
The two dated until Aaliyahs tragic death in a plane crash on Aug. 25, 2001. Dash later said that while they werent formally engaged, theyd discussed plans to marry.
One year after Aaliyahs passing, in 2002, rumors began circulating of a growing rift between Dash and Jay. Dash had signed his childhood pal Camron to Roc-A-Fellamuch to Jays chagrinand attempted to install him in an executive post at the label, a move that was blocked by Jay. Furthermore, since Jay was planning his retirement after The Black Album, Dash was plotting his own future, rounding up a stable of artists hed discovered.
At a certain point, I got ready to depend on my other artists, Dash later told New York magazine. I started putting together an armyKanye, Camron, Beanie, the Diplomats. I figured Jay gave me time to prepare.
By 2004, Def Jam had offered to purchase Roc-A-Fella Records and install Jay as its CEO. According to New York, Jay invited Dash out to dinner at Da Silvano to break the news. Dash begged him to not take the name Roc-A-Fella, while Jay offered to give up everythingthe new post at Def Jam and Roc-A-Fella Recordsif he could have the masters back of Reasonable Doubt. Dash declined, and after Jay, Dash, and Biggs sold their 50 percent stake in Roc-A-Fella to Def Jam, giving the label complete ownership, Jay reclaimed his masters, kicked his two pals to the curb, and assumed the position of CEO.
He said, Its business, Dash explained to New York. But we were always supposed to be about more than business, Jay especiallyI did everything I possibly could so that he didnt have to raise his voice. He just had to whisper something in my ear and Id take care of it. The people I fought with to make money for him, Lyor Cohen and Kevin LilesDef Jam execshes made friends with. He hangs out with Puff now. Its like if your brother leaves you.
Camron and his hip-hop collective the Diplomats left The Roc for Warner Brothers, while the bulk of the artists on Roc-A-Fella stayed on with Jay Z over Dashincluding Dash discovery Kanye West.
West later explained why he sided with Jay Z over Dash in a 2013 interview with Power 105.1s The Breakfast Club.
The problem was with Dame his truth was more accurate and more closer to what mine was, but his technique was harsh for me as a young kid and stuff, said West. I felt like a little bit more pressure. And Jay Z was a nice guy. And also I felt like I had that truth that Dame has in him. We the same. Me and Cam, me and Dame, we the same. But I wanted to learn this technique that Jay got of actually being likable So, Jay Z know how to move in a room full of vultures. You know what Im saying? As his little brother, I needed to learn that technique because I got something that God want me to give the world.
Dash started his own imprint, Dame Dash Music Group, but it folded shortly thereafter, and he never regained his former glory. Around this time, in 2005, he married Rachel Roy, a former creative director at Rocawear whowith Dashs helphad launched an eponymous fashion line. They had two daughters before splitting in 2009, and in April of last year, their custody battle came to an end less than a year after the Met Ball incident.
Dash has lost sole and physical custody of his two daughters, 15-year-oldAva Dash and 6-year-oldTallulah Dash, to ex-wife Roy, reported E! News, whod obtained the court documents. The fashion designer also successfully obtained a three-year restraining order against her ex, which also includes an order of protection for her daughters.
While Jays remained relatively mum about the state of his relationship with Dash, the latter has opened up about it quite a bit over the years, claiming Jay betrayed the company and even alleging he was tied to informants.
Their beef will, of course, forever be immortalized on the remix of Kanye Wests Diamonds Are Forever. In it, Jay raps, I took the name, I take the blame, later adding, Im not a businessman / Im a business, man / So let me handle my business, damn!